Sunday, May 4, 2008

Special Indeed...

The week ahead will allow time for more healing. I have a brief reprieve from doctor appointments until the end of the week.


Today, thanks to my sis Rebecca, I had the opportunity to go to a bridal shower. The common thread amongst all the guests was the love they all share for the bride-to-be (guest of honor.) At her request there was a talent show where we guests had to take center stage and shower the GOH with a song, dance, poem or anything else they thought appropriate.

I walked away from today feeling honored to have been included at this shower and loving the fact that the GOH is my soon to be step Mom.

One of the guests shared the following poem as her talent. Once I heard it I knew I had to share it. I hope you will enjoy it as much as I.

Maya Angelou's Best Poem Ever

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ....Enough money within her control to move out And rent a place of her own even if she never wants to or needs to...

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ....Something perfect to wear if the employer or date of her dreams wants to See Her in an hour...

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ...A youth she's content to leave behind....

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ....A past juicy enough that she's looking forward to retelling it in her Old Age....

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE .A set of screwdrivers, a cordless drill, and a black lace bra...

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ....One friend who always makes her laugh...And one Who lets her cry...

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ....A good piece of furniture not previously owned by anyone else in her Family...

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ....Eight matching plates, wine glasses with stems, And a recipe for a meal that will make her guests feel Honored...

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ....A feeling of control over her destiny...

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...How to fall in love without losing herself..

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...HOW TO QUIT A JOB, BREAK UP WITH A LOVER, AND CONFRONT A FRIEND WITHOUT RUINING THE FRIENDSHIP...

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...When to try harder...And WHEN TO WALK AWAY...

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW... That she can't change the length of her calves, The width of her hips, or the nature of her parents..

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...That her childhood may not have been perfect...But it's over...

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...What she would and wouldn't do for love or more...

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...How to live alone...Even if she doesn't like it...

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...Whom she can trust, Whom she can't, And why she shouldn't take it personally...

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...Where to go...Be it to her best friend's kitchen table...Or a charming inn in the woods...When her soul needs soothing...

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...What she can and can't accomplish in a day...A month...And a year...

Ancora Imparo
Marla

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

Iwould add to that "Evey woman should know when to leave well enough alone..."

thanks for sharing...and Mazal Tov on the acquisition of this new family member!

With love always

Marilyn, Fred and Betty

Anonymous said...

Grateful for your continual healing, ever-present joy & gratitude, and dang grateful for that reminder about the Maya Angelou poem (which I had since forgotten) and your pep talk on my own blog. So glad to have you (near or far) in my life today to remind me how good life is. In blessings, gratitude and love and big rah-rah's for more continual health & healing - Nic